Beyond Balance: Discharging Static Community

Deeply embedded into our biology is the instinct that community is about survival. Safety in numbers. It is rooted into our natural drive to come together with others for protection and security. As such, the best thing to do was to strengthen the bonds of the group and maintain collective order—even expelling overly divisive and diverse members that would upset the stability of the community. Our very existence may have depended on it.

Might there actually be a similar movement happening today, necessary for our survival, but in a different way? Moving toward the collective, recognizing that we deeply need each other again in order to survive. That the myth of individual independence is crumbling in a way we feel deep in our bones. 

But going forward, our survival will be less dependent on sameness and conformity to the collective for the sake of group stability. Rather, we will find our path through by welcoming the interplay of our unique diversity growing the field of possibility exponentially, dancing together in the multiplicity of energies where emergence comes forth.

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How Do We Be Together Well?

In this series on Practicing Community, we have explored many aspects of how we come into and practice mystical community with others on this evolving spiritual path. Undergirding this whole series are the foundational identities and fundamental values of Integral Christian Network. We approach practicing community from the heart of being Christian (in an evolving way), Mystical, and Integral. We hold everything we do to our values of Love, Mystical, We, Uniqueness, and Emergence

When we look particularly at our practices of community, we may also identify some more specific values of community that have been implicit throughout this series. I’d like to now bring those up to the forefront and consider these more directly, as they make up the energetic source of how we are together—of how we seek to be together well. 

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Mystical Sacraments of the New Church

Communal Participation in Resurrection
Practicing Community – Part Sixteen

On this Easter weekend, churches across the world are celebrating the resurrection of Jesus from the dead. A common refrain will be heard and echoed across many services and gatherings:

“Christ is risen!” 

And the response, “He is risen indeed!”

If I might be so bold, I’d like to propose an amendment to this declaration: 

We are risen indeed!”

For we are the living resurrection of Christ today. Here and now.

If the body of Christ is the people of God, the church, the gathering together of those who are summoned in spirit—and Christ is risen—then we are risen indeed!

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What Type of Community Are You In?

Throughout this series, we’ve been talking about “community” as a general blanket term. But there are many different types of community. Not just spiritual community versus other reasons for gathering, but forms of collectives that have different purposes and general ways of being together. What are the reasons that we gather together?


Commonalities of some kind are what bring us together in community. They are the gathering principles of attraction and bonding that form collectives. These may be shared experiences, common intent, similarity of beliefs, access to resources, related needs, associated risks, and more. 


On one level, geographical location has long been a major determining factor for access to communities, though as we have already described, that is changing rapidly. With this limitation drastically altered, nonlocal communities can form with much greater specification and specialization. 


Many communities come together simply to engage in a shared activity, like a book club or choir. Here, we’re considering those with some sort of higher purpose.


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When We Evolve It Will Be Together

One of the tragedies in our time of hyper-individualism is the loss of our larger stories of meaning, purpose, and transformation. 

Religious narratives of eternal judgment to heaven or hell have largely lost their fearful grip. Commercial narratives of economic triumph are insatiable and ultimately unfulfilling. 

National narratives of political salvation coming from the State not only continue to fail, but generally aren’t encompassing enough to bring about holistic transformation.

What is your larger collective story?

Is it big enough for the immensity of your longings? For the immeasurable value of your soul? For the highest purpose and deepest meaning of your ultimate being?

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Navigating Natural Rhythms of Community

Phases of Group Development
Practicing Community – Part Thirteen

It is the nature of life to grow and evolve. So too, every group and community that is alive will go through change and growth. Unfortunately, many spiritual communities instead take a static approach to community life. They try to keep things the way they are, reinforcing the traditional patterns and set processes that bind the members to a repetitive cycle.

But if the spiritual community continues to evolve, it can be a synergistic process of personal growth and communal evolution working in tandem.

Let’s look at some natural phases of the process of community life and where that can lead us if we navigate them with wisdom and grace.

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The New Architecture of Transformative Community

Last week, we considered the need for new structures and ways of coming together in spiritual community. Recognizing that many of the old forms are not equipped to handle the new wine of evolving spirit in this time of great change, we looked at our own personal place in the midst of these great transitions. Where are we meant to be? Where is spirit calling us to live and contribute with our unique gifts and presence?

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Do You Resonate When You Pray for Others?

A Prayer that Resonates

One of our core mystical practices in our WeSpace Groups is something we have called "Integral Prayer." That is admittedly a name that does not say much about what it actually is. We have had to keep putting a lot of energy into helping others understand what we mean by that terminology. In a long, wonderful conversation Luke and I had about this, Luke came up with a much more lively and descriptive name to help with that understanding — Resonating Prayer.

We can pray predictably, saying the routine words or affirmations of a religious ritual. Or we can pray in a resonating way. One of the dictionary meanings of "resonate" is "to affect or appeal in a personal or emotional way." Or "to strike a chord with." So we might say this is prayer that comes from deeply personal and vibrating, felt resonance within that seeks to strike a chord in another.

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